Well, obviously an adult don’t need permission to use a vibrator. Officially it's mainstream: research shows that at least half of all women in America use vibrators, and 17% of these women are teenagers. In 2009, the Journal of Sexual Medicine reported that more than half of women used a vibrator, either alone or with a partner, and that it was officially "mainstream" when tried. Young women aged 25 to 34 are more likely than older women to have ever used sex toys. 51% of participants in this age group report current or past sex toy use.

Why do Women Use a Vibrator for Sexual Pleasure?

There is a reason women flock to them: women who have used vibrators report a higher level of satisfaction with their sexual experiences than those who have not. Researchers say this could be because using a vibrator helps women feel more confident in their sexuality and more comfortable with themselves and their bodies. 

If using a vibrator is such a wonderful experience and has so many benefits. There should be no problem at all for a teenage girl to use it.

It is understood that some parents worry about their baby girl to use it too early. The negative consequence could be that your teenage are additive to sex. However, when she grows up to the proper age, she begin to have the desire for sex, and want to try having sex with boys in her age.

If you will release control over your girl anyway, why not prepare them better for their life?  

The most important thing is that I suggest you to talk to her first about the vibrator. Then, if she feels okay with it, just give her a vibrator and let her experiment with it. If she likes it or any other sex toy of herself, she probably won't raise it with you, but if she does, she might not. So don't rule out buying a vibrator for your teenager. 

Why it's not a Bad Idea?

If it is okay to use a vibrator, I think it is okay if someone buys a vibrator for themselves or someone else in their life. If you buy it for your teenager and buy her a right one, it gives her a tool for herself - love.

Using a vibrator as a sexual aid ensures that their genitals still get the benefits of sexual stimulation and orgasm from using it. As she gets older, her sexual activity with her partner decreases with age. Normalizing the use of vibrators can help her overcome the taboos surrounding sexuality at an early age and ensure self-love and care.

Improved stimulation, such as the use of a vibrator, can increase arousal and overall sexual function in both men and women. Vibrators can add a level of excitement and fun to a sexual experience that young girls can demand on their own terms. This may not seem so controversial to some, because many teen girls actually enjoy having a vibrator. But how can we expect people to have legal sex at 16 and not use toys that educate them about how their bodies work?

For parents who wanted to buy a vibrator for her 14-year-old girl but really don’t know how to talk about it.  What should they do. Well, why not just spare her the trouble and find a way to discreetly buy her vibrators if you wanted to? 

The thing is, most of the times your teenage girl maybe want to talk to you about it first, but she thinks that people who masturbate or use dildos or vibrators could be considered sick or perverted, so it's not a good idea to ask mom. So it is always a good thing that mom can openly talk about sex education with teenage. If you think vibrator is too much for her. You can encourage her to practice on her hands first. There is no shame to explore and communicate with our bodies.