Lesbian sex positions aren’t just a menu—they’re a language. A dialect of gasps, arched backs, and toys that dial-up desire (think clit suction that thrums like a heartbeat, vibes that map every nerve, and straps that demand attention). This isn’t about memorizing moves—it’s about rewriting your pleasure vocabulary, one “don’t stop” at a time.
Tonight, we’re decoding positions that prioritize mutual fire, paired with tech so advanced, your bed becomes a playground designed by pleasure engineers. No spoilers, but imagine G-spot earthquakes triggered by a button, whispered commands sent via app, and lube so slick, it laughs at friction. Trust us: these toys don’t just enhance—they transform.
The rules? There are none. Just a promise: by dawn, you’ll speak fluent pleasure. Hungry? Let’s feast.
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Why Exploring New Positions (And Toys) Matters
Lesbian sex positions are trust falls with benefits—a rhythm only you two understand. Imagine decoding each other’s pleasure maps through tangled limbs, whispered demands, and toys that turn “sensitive” into sensory sabotage.
Switch positions like you’re cracking a vault—every shift reveals new erogenous Easter eggs. That spot behind her knee? The hitch in her breath when you graze her hip? Gold.
Toys? They’re accomplices: clit suckers humming like live wires, app-controlled vibes obeying silent commands, straps that rewrite power dynamics.
This isn’t “spicing things up.” It’s a full-blown bedroom rebellion—one collaborative heist at a time.
Top 5 Lesbian Sex Positions To Try (With Bonus Toy Recommendations)
Forget “basic angles”—these five positions weaponize your chemistry into full-blown fireworks. Below, we’re pairing each with toys that turn embers into infernos. Let’s burn the script.
1. Sensual Scissors
The Vibe: Legs tangled, clits aligned. Grind slow to sync heartbeats or fast for mutual meltdowns.
Why It Works: Eye contact + skin-on-skin = trust falls with benefits.
Toy Pairing: OG 3 Clit Sucker
- Pro Tip: Slip the OG 3 between you—its showerhead suction locks on like a hungry mouth.
2. Power Straddle
The Vibe: Straddle their thigh, take the reins. Dom energy meets “don’t you dare stop” gasps.
Why It Works: Control the rhythm, angles, and exactly how wrecked they get.
Toy Pairing: Surreal App-Controlled Vibrator
- Pro Tip: Hand them the app—let their finger slips dictate your vibes.
3. Spoon & Surge
The Vibe: Spoon from behind, reach around for G-spot or clit payback. Lazy but lethal.
Why It Works: Nibble necks while your hands (or toys) wander south. Multitasking, upgraded.
Toy Pairing: COCO G-Spot Vibrator
- Pro Tip: Let the COCO’s “come-hither” flicker tease their front wall as you bite their shoulder.
4. 69 Upgrade
The Vibe: Oral? Yes. Boring? Never. Rotate 90 degrees for better access + toy real estate.
Why It Works: Trust falls with your face between their legs—what’s hotter?
Toy Pairing: Craybit Pro Rabbit
- Pro Tip: Sync the Craybit to bass-heavy tracks—every beat pulses exactly where it counts.
5. Standing Ovation
The Vibe: Against a wall, one leg hooked over your hip. Raw, urgent, deliciously risky.
Why It Works: Gravity deepens every thrust, while the angle lets you control rhythm and pressure.
Toy Pairing: Hercules Swinging Dildo
- Pro Tip: Activate its built-in heating core (up to 62°C) for body-real warmth, and use the suction base to lock it onto tiles or glass for hands-free pounding.
Let our tongue-licking vibrators master clit play with flutters, flicks, and shower-safe stealth—perfect for public teasing.
3 Mood-Killing Mistakes to Dodge
Even the hottest lesbian sex positions can fizzle if you overlook these basics. Below, we’re calling out the blunders that turn “oh yes” into “oh… no”—plus how to fix them.
Lube Fails (Skipping or Choosing Wrong)
The Crime: Dry grinding = irritation city. Silicone lube melts TPE toys; oil-based wrecks condoms. Double whammy.
The Fix: Tracy’s Dog water-based lube. Safe for toys, condoms, and all positions.
Pro Tip: Pre-lube suction toys (like the OG 3) for airtight seal + next-level suction.
Ignoring Toy Cleanup
The Crime: Unwashed toys = yeast infection invitations. Bacteria throws no sexy parties.
The Fix: Post-play, scrub every inch with TD Toy Cleaner. Air-dry fully before stashing.
Pro Tip: Store toys in satin pouches—dust bunnies aren’t invited.
Skipping Warm-Up
The Crime: Jumping straight to pounding = guaranteed discomfort. Bodies need slow-burn foreplay.
The Fix: Start with the Juicy Clitoral Licking Vibrator on its gentlest tongue flick—think teasing, not conquering.
Pro Tip: Pair Juicy’s licking mode with the Surreal vibrator’s nipple patterns for a full-body warm-up.
Stick our suction dildos to any surface for hands-free thrusting, heated intensity, and textures that laugh at gravity.
Conclusion
The secret to unforgettable lesbian sex isn’t just what you do—it’s how you sync rhythms. Think beyond mechanics: slow, deliberate grinding in “Sensual Scissors” becomes edging artistry when paired with toys that mimic breath-like suction.
Introduce sensory layers—chill your clit-licking toy pre-use for temperature whiplash (warm lube, cold tongue flicks) or layer textured vibrations over thrusting pulses.
Flip the script: let the receiver control the remote app during “Standing Ovation,” turning power dynamics into a game where everyone wins.
Here’s the truth: toys aren’t tools—they’re collaborators. Treat them like a third partner who never taps out.
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FAQs about Lesbian Sex Positions
How do I make lesbian sex positions more intense?
Pair positions like “Power Straddle” with clit suction toys or app-controlled vibes. The right tech mimics oral precision while letting you control rhythm. Pro tip: Use warming lube to amplify every glide and grind.
What lesbian sex positions are best for beginners?
Start with “Spoon & Surge” (low pressure, high skin contact) or “Sensual Scissors” (easy clit alignment). Add a slim, remote-ready vibrator for gentle exploration—think teasing pulses, not quake-mode.
Can strap-ons work with lesbian sex positions?
Absolutely. A weighted, body-safe strap shines in “Standing Ovation” or doggy-style variations. Opt for ones with textured bases for dual clit stimulation—everyone gets a turn.
How do toys deepen emotional connection during sex?
Shared control (like app-operated vibes) builds trust through playful power swaps. Eye contact + synchronized rhythms = intimacy that outlasts the orgasm.
What lesbian positions work well with a strap-on?
Missionary allows intimacy and easy angle adjustment, while doggy style offers deeper penetration. Partner-on-top (cowgirl) lets the receiver control rhythm and depth. Spooning can be comfortable for slower, connected play—always prioritize communication, lubrication, and mutual comfort.
Are there lesbian positions that are better for clitoral stimulation?
Tribbing (grinding vulva-to-vulva) or scissoring allows direct clitoral contact and mutual stimulation. Partner-on-top positions, like straddling, let one partner grind against the base of a strap-on or their partner’s body. Missionary or face-to-face spooning also enable easy access for hands or toys—prioritize alignment, rhythm, and open communication to maximize pleasure for both partners.