It goes without saying that having a dildo in a sexual relationship can be a great addition. It has been a great companion of women (especially) for many years. Even so, some still aren't sure what they will experience when they try it out. We would like to discuss everything related to this subject today, starting with how to insert a dildo correctly for more pleasure.

Dildos are shaped like penises, as you might have noticed, due to the simple reason that penetration is regarded as one of the most pleasurable activities during sex. Furthermore, many women long for being penetrated when they feel like it without their partners around.

But that does not mean that they do not want to share it with their sexual partner after doing it solo. Quite the opposite. The next step is to share the pleasure of masturbation with your partner after experiencing it more intensely alone. And boy, if used properly, it will give your relationship a very special touch!

When it comes to enjoying a dildo, it's about knowing how to handle it, how to experience it better, and how to do so without causing discomfort to the body.

Even though most have been created to meet the tastes of nearly everyone, some materials, shapes, and textures may be better suited to some people than others. But we're here to help you if you haven't figured it out yet or if you want to experiment with something new that you don't feel safe with.

To get the most pleasure from a dildo, it is important to insert the dildo the right way and keep our sex toys clean, even before we use them for the first time.

Our goal is to make sure you enjoy your dildo alone or with your partner to its fullest. Having said that, let's start with all the information about dildos and their insertion that you need to know. It's not at all complicated.

Here we go!

How to Insert a Dildo: Step to Step

There are many ways to satisfy sexual needs, but oral and finger sex remain the most popular. In this respect, we know that insertion is an easy step, but not for everyone. In this section, we will demonstrate step-by-step how to insert a dildo so that you will feel much safer doing it.

The first thing is to relax. There is nothing to fear or anything that can harm you if you relax and let yourself be carried away by what you feel and what you want to experience. Before inserting a dildo, it is important to mentalize that you will enjoy it and that everything will go well. Once you grasp this concept, then you can worry about the next step without being so calculated, for the truth is easy to grasp, and it is even easier if you manage to enter a temperature of excitement with which you will feel more at ease.

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With that in mind, let's take a look at the most explicit. That is, how to insert a dildo in your vagina. Here are the steps to follow:

  1. Being in an intimate climate of relaxation and tranquility.
  2. Put yourself in a position where you feel comfortable.
  3. Prepare your dildo. You have to have it clean and, if you prefer, put on a condom.
  4. Have some lubricant nearby if this is the first time you will use it, so the insertion will be easier if you are not lubricated enough.
  5. Lubricate your dildo's head with some lubricant of your choice and start rubbing on your clitoris and vagina slowly.
  6. Apply some lubricant to the outside of your vagina and your inner and outer lips. Here you should already be feeling an excitation temperature.
  7. Open your lips with your middle finger and index finger enough.
  8. Take your dildo and start inserting it slowly. The vagina will tell you how far to go according to how relaxed and excited you are. It is practically the same as inserting the penis, only in this case you control it with your hands.
  9. Once inside, enjoy the pleasure, and you can start putting it in and taking it out as fast or slow as you prefer. Some women leave it still inside the vagina and stimulate your clitoris. That's another way to reach orgasm with a dildo.

Do you see that it is straightforward?

Let's just say that it all depends more on how relaxed you feel and very little on how it should be done. Remember that dildos are designed to enter the vagina or anus without causing problems or ailments. So there's not much to worry about. 

Tips to Enjoy Dildo Insertion More

  • Some dildos have a base to help hold and control movement better when inserted. Others do not, but they are still easy to manipulate. One way or another, you'll be able to comfortably take it in your hand and insert it at a pace that suits your comfort level.
  • The next time you have it inside, rotating it a little will also give you a little more pleasure, especially if you are touching your clitoris at the same time.
  • By inserting and moving your dildo inside yourself, you will increase the possibility for your excitement to take over you. As you become more excited, you can increase your pace.
  • Locate the G-Spot and the A-Spot, then move it and press it inside the vagina, and you will experience more pleasure.

It is Important Not to Miss These Key Tips

  • Be in a good mood and willing to have a moment of self-pleasure.
  • Turn on as if you were with your sexual partner. Use your imagination.
  • Use water-based lubricant if it is vaginal or anal penetration. This step is especially important for anal penetration since it does not lubricate automatically, as the vagina does.
  • Always keep your dildo or toy clean.
  • If you want to feel more comfortable with hygiene, you can put a condom on your dildo.
  • Enjoy the experience.

Masturbating With a Dildo How do I Choose the Best One For Me?

Most dildos are designed to be used by anyone, so choosing the right one is not too difficult. They differ in their manufacturing materials. A glass or steel dildo, which is normally cold, is perfect for use during a temperature game, and those with a double tip are suited for use with a sexual partner.

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The most important thing, then, is that you consider your wants and needs when choosing the most appropriate dildo for you.

The following are some other examples of sensations and the right dildo to experience them:

  • Feeling full or stretching: It should be a larger dildo.
  • Strong stimulation: It should be a dildo with weight, such as steel, wood, or glass.
  • Extra feeling: It should be a dildo with a vibrator.
  • Stimulate the clitoris: It should be a special dildo for G Spot.
  • Anal stimulation: Any dildo can be used in the vagina or anus. The important thing here is to change condoms when you move from one place to another to avoid infections.

The Best Positions to Use It

Everything will be much more comfortable for you when you know how to insert your dildo and adapt it to your position. Nevertheless, it does not mean that the dildo can only be inserted in one place or position. On the contrary, you can do it in several ways, with which you feel more comfortable. Here are some that can work for you when you're trying the first few times:

  • Lying on the bed on your back: Some people find it helpful to place a pillow or soft cushion under their hips, so the G Spot is higher and more comfortable to insert. The feeling of pleasure is much greater if you raise your knees to the chest in this position.
  • Puppy position: This position is more suitable for inserting the dildo with a partner. Alternatively, if you're alone or have long arms, you can also do it comfortably from the back. Alternatively, you can rest an elbow or chin on the bed and insert it normally.
  • Supporting your feet: Use the bed, a desk nearby, or the wall to keep them raised or firmly in place. You'll have more control during the insertion process this way.

Types of Dildo

As we mentioned a little above, there are dildos made of different materials, each for different simulation purposes. We mention them to you:

  • Vibrator dildos: Perfect for further stimulation inside the vagina or when touching the clitoris.
  • Glass dildos: Heavier and colder dildos. Usually, glass dildos come with two heads, so it is suitable for penetration with the couple.
  • Dildos with suction cup: Perfect for mounting and having your hands free because they stick to the surface.
  • Push dildos: They have a moving head and contract and expand inside the vagina, helping greater stimulation.
  • Larger dildos: If you want to feel a greater sense of fullness, this type of dildo is perfect. Just use enough lubricant and be careful when inserting it, so you don't hurt yourself.

How to Keep Your Dildo Clean?

Keeping your dildo clean will avoid infections and discomfort in daily life or during sexual activities. Even though the dildo is brand new, it is still necessary to clean it since it goes through several stages of manufacture, and since it will be inserted into the body, it is best to thoroughly clean it before use.

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You can also wash it with warm water and a little liquid soap after using it. When drying it, use a clean cloth or towel that leaves no lint behind. If there is no water nearby, you can use wet wipes until you can access the water.

Keeping it clean will allow you to avoid any internal infection and prolong its lifespan. Clean it if it is battery-powered, but don't let it get wet.

Enjoy your Dildo

When it comes to sexual activity, the most important thing is to have enjoyable and pleasurable experiences with it. Therefore, if you want to prolong that sensation or make it different, learning how to insert a dildo will benefit you.

You should also keep in mind that you should choose the one that makes you feel more comfortable alone or with your partner. Experiment, and you will find what you like.

Relax and enjoy your dildo. We'll know that once you try it, you'll love it.

If you need a little more advice, we're here to help. Visit our blog for more sexy tips and tricks to use in the bedroom.