Even if the years begin to take their toll on you, including in terms of libido, sex remains an important part of life, and orgasm's ability to help reduce anxiety and depression is still valid.

Menopause is the most common cause of a decrease in libido in women, and it is often accompanied by other symptoms such as vaginal dryness. As a result, the possibility of a desire for penis stimulation or partner play is quite low.

This female sexual dysfunction does not imply, however, that women who have reached this stage of their lives do not still desire to feel sexy, enjoy themselves, or even try new things that enhance their sexual well-being.

The path to achieving these objectives may be slightly more difficult, but there is nothing that cannot be resolved with a little time spent rediscovering one's own sexuality. And to fulfill the unique demands of older women, this can be accomplished through carefully selected sex toys.

To improve your sex life, the key here is that you must be comfortable with the adult toys you select in order to finally get the pleasure and relaxation you desire and truly deserve. Check out our guide sex toy guide, and find best vibrators for older women.

Why Are Sex Toys Important Even Later In Life

Sex Toys for Older Women

Conversations about adult toys continue to be shrouded in shame. We are uncomfortable whenever a sex toy or anything related to intimacy and sexuality is mentioned.

Nonetheless, despite the fact that there is still an almost bashful approach to sex toys, there are certain benefits that cannot be disputed and have even been emphasized in some studies.

According to a study of the adult female population in the United States, less than half of women aged 57 to 73 reported being sexually active, and those who were had sex less than twice a month on average.

Based on this reality, Harvard Health Publishing researchers discovered in a study of 70 women that 66% of participants who had difficulty with sexual arousal and climax reported a higher likelihood of orgasms when using a vibrator. 

Using vibrators on a regular basis during menopause can also help to naturally lubricate the vagina and, thus, combat one of the most common symptoms of this time, which is vaginal dryness.

Vibrators improve blood flow in the genital area and thus stimulate the production of natural fluids. This discovery was also made in the Harvard Health Publishing study after several menopausal women used vibrators continuously for three months.

And, of course, there are the obvious benefits related to general well-being, anxiety and depression decline, and, more broadly, confidence in oneself, rewards that apply regardless of age. Because intense orgasms are always welcome!

Why Do Older Women Have Reduced Libido?

As women reach their late 40s or 50s, they may experience a decrease in sexual desire due to menopause-related hormonal changes. If menopause occurs suddenly due to surgery or chemotherapy, the decline in libido can be even more pronounced due to rapid drops in estrogen levels. Natural menopause can also lead to physical changes causing discomfort and reduced sensation, which contributes to a lower sex drive. Psychological factors like negative views about aging can impact desire, but maintaining a positive outlook and self-confidence may help increase libido. Emotional closeness with a partner plays a role, while health issues and some medications can decrease sexual drive. Open communication with a partner significantly influences a woman's sexual desire.

How To Choose The Perfect Sex Toy for Older Women

Vibrators for Older Women

By now, it is clear that vibrators and adult toys in general continue to provide benefits even when a woman is facing menopause.

However, we cannot ignore the fact that, as time passes, women's needs change, and the vibrators they select must respond to these changes in order to achieve their goals.

Clit Sucking Vibrators Are The Stars

As previously stated, menopause and the time that passes have a significant disadvantage in the form of vaginal dryness. Yes, vibrators can help stimulate natural lubrication, but this can only happen after a few months of consistent use. So, avoid penetrating toys in the early stages and instead opt for a clit sucking vibrator.

Vaginal dryness can cause pain during penetrative sex, but orgasm is not solely about penetration and can be obtained by only stimulating the clitoris, the most erogenous area on the body. So, choosing a clit sucker is the way to go.

Flexibility Is The Key

The age factor brings not only menopause into the world of women, but also certain joint and flexibility issues. As a result, when selecting your vibrating friend that will assist you in getting back into the game, choose one made of flexible materials that articulate easily, allowing you to use it from the most comfortable positions.

Different Levels of Intensity, More Chances for Orgasm

Also, it's crucial to pick a vibrator that offers a range of intensity options. The likelihood of reaching orgasm significantly rises in this manner.

This must be considered since as time passes, reaching climax becomes more difficult.

Top 5 Best Vibrators for Older Women

There are plenty of vibrators and sex toys to choose from in Tracy's Dog's collection, regardless of your needs, because all options are designed with the same goal in mind: pleasure.

There are numerous vibrators for older women to choose from. We will only discuss the best sellers in this section, but we recommend you to study the entire collection to find the best option for you.

1. OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

Vibraters for Older Women

When it comes to the ideal vibrator for older women, this best-seller checks all the boxes. It can be used in any position because it is made of a soft and flexible material. Furthermore, because it can be remote-controlled, the OG Pro 2 is ideal for some hands-free action. This vibrator also has ten different intensity levels, clearly showing that it is a sure way to orgasm.

  • 3-in-1 (clitoral stimulation, G-spot massage, and both);
  • 10 different levels of intensity;
  • High-quality and flexible materials;
  • Remote-controlled.

2. OG FLOW, 2-in-1 Clit Sucking Vibrator


Best Sex Toys for Older Women


OG Flow is the ideal option for anyone, regardless of age, because it is meant to be discrete while also offering all the intense stimulation required to reach orgasm. This vibrator is the perfect sex partner thanks to its flexible materials and variable intensities.

  • 2-in-1 (clitoral vibrator, G-spot massage);
  • 10 levels of intensity;
  • Flexible and body-safe silicone;
  • Different suction modes.

3. P. Cat Sucking Vibrator

Vibrator for Older Woman

We included P. Cat on our list of the best vibrators for older women because of the various intensity levels and suction modes available for oral sex-like sensations. The P. Cat, like the other vibrators discussed, is made of high-quality materials and is a discreet but powerful sex toy.

  • 3 different intensity levels;
  • 10 different suction modes;
  • High-quality materials;
  • Lightweight.

4. COCO Silicone G Spot Vibrator

Vibrator for Older Women

Introducing COCO, 4 in 1 Silicone Toy Vibrator, a thoughtfully designed pleasure companion for enhanced satisfaction. Crafted from premium, body-safe liquid silicone, COCO vibrator combines G-spot, anal, clitoral, and nipple stimulation in one. Its seamless and waterproof design ensures effortless cleaning. Plus, its flexible texture makes it perfect for hitting the spot in any position. Specifically curated to cater to the desires of older women, this discreet and innovative pleasure device promises unforgettable moments of pleasure and comfort. Rediscover your sensual self with confidence and pleasure like never before.

  • 4-in-1 vibrator for every type of pleasure
  • Powerful steel motor for the G-Spot
  • 100% Waterproof 
  • 100% body-safe silicone
  • Bendable texture

5. Alpha Rabbit Sucking Vibrator

Best Vibrators for Older Women

Alpha Vibrator is the ultimate Tracy's Dog multifunctional rabbit sucking vibrator, tailored for the boldest pleasures. Dual-stimulate your G-spot and clitoris with 2 separate modes for unparalleled ecstasy. Experience 7 vibration and 7 suction modes that cater to your every desire. This new-generation rabbit delivers unforgettable g-spot and clit stimulation, redefining pleasure. Designed with the needs of older women in mind, Alpha Vibrator offers a discreet and powerful experience, bringing boundless delight and satisfaction. Rediscover your sexual confidence, embracing the joys of pleasure even better than in the past.

  • 3-in-1 vibrator
  • 7 vibration modes
  • 7 sucking modes
  • 100% body-safe silicon
  • Built with Pleasure Air technology.

Wrapping Up!

The time that passes should not be an impediment to experiencing pleasure, because it is for everyone. Women's sexual lives do not end with menopause, but continue throughout their lives, and are crucial to their overall well-being.

The best sex toys can help you achieve this state of well-being while also ameliorating a number of symptoms associated with the onset of menopause, such as vaginal dryness and inability to reach orgasm.

Of course, adult toys must be chosen based on individual needs, so there is no perfect top for all women. Still, Tracy's Dog sex toys are ideal even for older women because they are designed to bring pleasure, and pleasure has no age limit.