How to Use a Vibrator During Sex | Beginner’s Guide

You can use a vibrator for solo fun, but it can also serve as an excellent guest when you are having sex with your partner. Even if your partner does not need to use a vibrator to orgasm, both of you could benefit from using one during foreplay.

The vibrations can boost a lagging libido by facilitating blood flow to the genitals. A vibrator can also make sex more interesting when used with a partner. According to sexologists, vibrators enhance an already fun activity by adding an extra layer of sensation.

Vibrators can be used in many ways with a partner, and this guide can give you some ideas if you're not sure where to begin. Ultimately, what feels right for you is a personal choice, but being open-minded can help you learn more about what makes you and your partner tick. This article will explain how to use a vibrator during sex and list the top four Tracy's Dog couples vibrators.

How to Bring Vibrator into a Relationship

You might feel hesitant to bring up the idea to your partner, but if you frame it as trying something new and exciting that will enhance what you're both doing, you'll find it less intimidating. In that case, here are a few tips to make your relationship more comfortable with the idea of bringing in a vibrator.

Opening the conversation 

To get the first reaction from your partner, mention a vibrator casually in conversation if you're just starting to talk about vibrators. This could be a quote from a movie, something a friend said, or something you read about them. Even so, vibrators are becoming more and more common, and related taboos are dissolving, so your partner may also be interested in trying them out.

Shop for a Vibrator Together

If you and your partner do not have much knowledge of vibrators, buying one together can be an educational experience for both of you. You can enjoy shopping with your partner if they are already comfortable around vibrators! No matter where you shop, explore a variety of shapes and sizes, considering various stimulation modes. Do you want something discreet, or are you looking for something more daring? And always think about what you would both feel comfortable doing together.

Tips for Using Vibrators During Sex with Your Partner

In addition to increasing your chances of orgasming solo or during sex, vibrators also come in handy when used with a partner. In order to enjoy all the awesome sensations a vibrator can bring during sex with your partner, here, Tracy’s Dog sex experts offer some of their best tips.

Start slow- You can start on a slow setting and use the tip to circle your nipples and then your partner's. Slowly increase your speed as you circle. Swap between using the vibrator and sucking each other's nipples: the back-and-forth and the heat will make you feel like you're in heaven.

Use remote- A vibrator with a remote control lets you wear it while your partner controls the speed and tempo of your toy, allowing you to experience one of the most toe-curling orgasms of your life. No matter how you use remote control sex toys, they always have an edge when it comes to using them during sex. Check out our collection of remotely controlled vibrators and go crazy. 

Give your partner full control- You can add excitement by giving up a little control and letting your partner take the lead. According to Tracy's Dog, sexologists sex is always much more exciting when they are controlled by your partner.

Always use lube- While lubricants are usually used to reduce friction, they can also enhance the sensations of the vibrator. Think of it as making something good much better. Choose a water-based lube instead of silicone lubes, as silicone lubes can damage silicone vibrators over time. Try a little at first, and don't be afraid to keep applying! Check out Tracy's Dog Water-Based Lubes here.

Bring the vibe in the shower-The experience of shower sex can be enhanced in a number of ways. Adding a vibrator is one of them. As long as the device that you are using is waterproof (as most of Tracy's Dog products are), you can use it for extra stimulation in the shower sex. If you would like to know more about sex in shower, check out the article about Bathtub Sex.

Find your sweet spot- Don't be afraid to experiment when you're learning how to use a vibrator with your partner. The erogenous zones respond differently to stimulation, so what might work for one person might not work for another. Here's where a vibrator can help. Apply vibrations in light circles to different parts of each other's bodies, such as the neck, nipples, inner thighs, behind the ear, back of the knee, the testicles, shaft, perineum, and even the armpits, scalp, and hands. Vibrating with a partner doesn't necessarily have to lead to orgasm; this technique can be used to enhance your foreplay.

Top 4 Couples Vibrators Offered by Tracy’s Dog

Having a vibrator at your disposal when you're alone is a great way to liven things up, but it can also be a memorable guest when you're using it during sex.

 If you're a beginner, this is probably your first time purchasing a toy for couples' play. Finding the right vibrator for a couple can be difficult and expensive.

This is why we have picked the four best couples vibrators created by Tracy's Dog that will guarantee you and your partner have the best orgasm you've ever experienced. Check out our top four best couples vibrators below and go crazy.

OG Pro2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

Tracy's Dog OG PRO 2 is a powerful 2-in1 clitoral sucking vibrator stimulating both your G-spot and clitoris simultaneously that will help you to hit a mind-blowing orgasm faster than ever. This suction vibrator clitoral toy is IPX-7 waterproof; you can have a blast anywhere you want... Tracy's Dog OG Pro2 Sucking Vibrator with a remote controller is perfect for a couple as well as for solo play.

• 10 different vibration modes 
• 2-in1 clitoral sucking vibrator
• 10 suction models for clit stimulation
• IPX-6 waterproof device
• Remote control
• 100% Body-safe silicone

Nina Vibe Pulsating Vibrator

Nina Vibe is a new generation of 2-in-1 U-shaped remotely controlled vibrators designed by Tracy's Dog that offers stimulation of both A-Spot, and clitoris for dual pleasure! Nina's 7 different pulsating patterns and 7 different speeds combine a whooping 49 settings. Its functional design and remote control make it a perfect toy for a couple's play. Nina Vibe will ensure that you and your partner have one of the best nights of your lives.

• 7 pulsating patterns
• 7 vibration speeds
• Remote control
• Bendable design
• Easy to clean

Dr. J Trident Remote Prostate Massager

Dr. J is a trident remote prostate massager designed to stimulate the prostate and perineum simply through anal kegel exercises. The 2 individual motor helps effectively stimulate the blood flow with the 7 vibration patterns that will bring you the most unforgettable anal stimulation you have ever had. Enjoy Dr. J yourself, or let your partner control your orgasm.

• 2 individual motors
• 7 vibrating patterns for prostate stimulation
• 7 vibrating patterns for perineum
• Remote control
• 100% waterproof
• 100% body-safe silicone

Shrooms Butt Plug Vibrator

Shrooms is a set of 3 butt plug vibrators with different sizes suitable for all users. Shrooms by Tracy’s dog is an ergonomic butt plug design that makes it easy and comfortable to insert, while its 9 vibration modes will make you enjoy thrilling orgasms more than ever. With a remote controller, it is perfect for a couple as well as for solo play.

• 3 sizes that fit all
• 9 different vibrating pattern
• Plug Vibrator Remote Control
• 100% body-safe medical grade silicone
• 100% Waterproof

Wrap Up!

This article discussed how to use a vibrator during sex and listed the top four Tracy's Dog vibrators for couples. Vibrators can be used in many ways with a partner, and hopefully, this guide gives you some ideas if you're not sure where to begin. In the end, what feels right for you is a personal choice, but being open-minded can help you learn more about what makes you and your partner tick. Buy one of our couple's vibrators and enjoy it all night with your partner.