Butt plugs can be a portal to new sexual experiences, allowing you to better understand your body while uncovering new nerve centers that will allow you to have unforgettable sexual interactions.
Before we get into why butt plugs are fun bedroom accessories, it's worth noting that they're appropriate for anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. In other words, you can be a straight man and benefit from a butt plug.
It's also worth noting that they can be combined with other gadgets designed to increase pleasure, such as clit sucking vibrators.
If you want to know what aspects to consider when wearing butt plugs for the first time and what to expect from this first experience, you've come to the right place!
Why Are Butt Plugs Fun?
The anus has its own collection of thousands of nerve endings that are stimulated while you use a butt plug or during rimming or anal sex.
Plus, if you have a G-spot, a butt plug can stimulate it through the anterior wall of the vagina. And in combination with a G-spot vibrator, like the ones from Tracy’s Dog cheap sex toys collection, things can become surreal.
If you have a prostate, a butt plug is a way to hit that magic orgasmic button. A comfortable butt plug with a flared, safe base can be the sexual main event or stay in place by itself, leaving your hands free to go elsewhere. Some people even prefer to wear a butt plug in public for a bit of adrenaline.
Alone, you can masturbate in a few different ways. Depending on the plug and how comfortable you are wearing it, you can even go clean the house. You can try some of the best masturbation positions that will feel a lot different now, with a little extra help from the butt plug.
How Do You Know if Butt Plugs Are for You
It’s okay to be nervous, and there’s no guarantee you’ll love butt plugs the first time you try them, the fifth time, or ever. Don’t think of them like your new forever sex toy; think of them like one item on a wide sexual menu. Sure, you could keep ordering your usual entrée – but it can also be fun to try something new.
Anyone of any sexual orientation can be into butt stuff and it doesn’t mean anything about their sexual preference.
Each person's experience with a butt plug is unique. Some people fall in love with this small addition on the first attempt, while others need numerous tries before they begin to appreciate the stimulus it provides, and yet others never become comfortable with it.
The truth is that the only way to find out if something is right for you is to try it. Basically, it's better to accept that it's not for you than to keep wondering how it might feel.
The First Steps in Masturbating With a Butt Plug
There are two important things to remember with any type of anal: go slower than you think you need to go, and use more lubricant than you think you need to use. Despite popular misconceptions, anal–whether with a butt plug, a dildo, a penis, or part of a fingering routine–isn’t supposed to hurt. If it does, it’s a sign that you need to adjust or slow down.
While some schools of thought suggest numbing lubes as part of the anal prep for wearing a butt plug or just for plain anal sex, we recommend against them because they make it harder to connect with your body’s signals. Instead, use a thick lube that does not contain paraben, glycerin, or petroleum-based ingredients. If your sex toy is silicone, use a water-based lube to avoid wrecking the surface of the toy. If your sex toy is not silicone, a silicone lube can give you some extra cushion. (Avoid oil-based lubes.)
If you’re trying out a butt plug for the first time, and particularly if you’re feeling nervous–which is okay!–or some shame around it–which is also okay, but which is likely coming less from you and more from made-up social norms that it’s okay to release!–it might feel easier to do so alone.
In the next paragraphs, we will discuss the first steps you need to follow in order to have a great experience as a beginner in the vast universe of butt plugs.
Follow with the basics
First, start masturbating like you would without a butt plug: One of the biggest challenges with butt stuff is relaxing enough to try it. Masturbating a little first can help you relax and get mentally receptive. Take some deep breaths and allow yourself to sink into your body.
Start with your fingers
Lube up your fingers (make sure your hands are clean), and gently massage the outside of your asshole. When you’re ready, touch one fingertip to your anus and slowly bear down. At first, it might feel a little like you have to poop–when that’s the main association you have with a full rectum, it takes a second to adjust. Go slow and breathe deep. If and when you feel more relaxed, try adding a second finger.
Slowly insert the butt plug
When you’re ready, lube up the butt plug, using more lube than you think you need. Rest it against your anus and slowly apply gentle pressure. If you’re using a curved butt plug, position it so that when inserted the curve points towards your stomach. If you’re using a straight butt plug, just make sure the base is parallel to your ass crack.
As you insert the butt plug a little resistance is okay, but if there’s a lot, ease off and go back to masturbating and using a finger or two until you’re more relaxed and ready to try again.
Hang out together
Once the butt plug is fully inside you, take a moment to get used to it. Try clenching and releasing your muscles around it. Any movement will feel intense, so keep going slow and use smaller motions.
Try wiggling instead of thrusting. When you’re ready, turn on the lowest vibration setting and go from there!
Removing the butt plug
This step requires almost as much delicacy as inserting one. It also kind of feels like pooping. For this reason, you might be more comfortable heading to the bathroom to take it out. Take a few deep breaths, relax, and gently slide it out. Wash your butt plug and your hands in soap and warm water so next time you’re ready to play.
Butt plugs are a lot of fun and will help you find new nerve centers that will give you the pleasure you crave, in addition to enriching your sexual life with an experience you will never forget.
Of course, things can be awkward at first, but this will change once you get used to it, and in this case, practice is really satisfying.
That's why butt plugs are a must at least once in a lifetime for anybody, regardless of sexual orientation or gender.